VC Minute

055. Ask For Help

March 03, 2023 Rich Maloy Season 2 Episode 55
VC Minute
055. Ask For Help
Show Notes Transcript

 Why is it so hard to ask for help? 

 Asking for help is important for everyone, doubly so for founders. We live in a society that values independence and self-sufficiency so many of us still struggle to ask for help, especially for our most vexing problems.

I'm here to tell you that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

About SpringTime Ventures
SpringTime Ventures seeds high-growth startups in healthcare, fintech, logistics, and marketplace businesses. We look for founders with domain expertise, forging a path with a truly transformative technology. We only invest in software-based businesses in the USA. We bring a people-focused approach, work quickly, and reach conviction independently. Our initial check size is $400k to $600k. You can learn more about us and our approach.   

About Rich Maloy
Rich's mission is to rebuild the American dream through entrepreneurship. He works with early stage startups transforming the world, giving all people the opportunity to grow, learn and earn. With prior careers in finance and sales, he's now focused on startups investing through SpringTime Ventures where he is a Managing Partner. He's a father of two young children and loves sci-fi, skiing, and video games.  

Rich:

Why is it so hard to ask for help? Asking for help is important for everyone, doubly so for founders. We live in a society that values independence and self-sufficiency so many of us still struggle to ask for help, especially for our most vexing problems. I'm here to tell you that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. And by asking for help, I'm not talking about the"ask" you put in your monthly update to send your candidates or make referrals, and I'm not talking about the ask to share a post. I'm talking about asking for help for the really hard thing you're facing. Should I try to expand my market horizontally or add features to grow average contract value? Should I fire this person? How do I negotiate for this critical piece in a contract? Why aren't you asking for help for the hard things? Are you afraid of being a burden to someone? Are you afraid of looking weak or incapable? Or did you just not think about it? Let's turn this around. Think about the last time someone from your network asked you for help. Did you help them? How did it make you feel Probably pretty good. You did not feel like they were burdening you, but you may have felt a little flattered that they thought to ask you. And you probably felt good after you were able to give them some guidance and some council. Think about that big thing you're struggling with right now. Who can you talk to about it? By asking for advice on a specific topic, you come across as curious and open-minded. And you probably make that person feel good that you sought them for advice. Being a founder can feel lonely. But it doesn't need to be. Acknowledging that we don't know everything and that we need assistance is a vital step towards personal growth. And as my Grandma always said,"you never know unless you ask." Thanks for joining me for another great week of VC minute. We're going to continue next week with founder mental health focusing on some intrinsic tips. And the following week, we're going to get back to fundraising. Happy Friday and have a great weekend.